Working Your Way Up To Taking It
You want to get fucked? As you probably know by now, it’s not as easy taking it the first time as porns might have you believe. As a senior, you’ve gone your whole life without taking a cock up there, don’t expect it to be easy now. These things take work.

Warning Signs From Your Older Partner
Health is something that we don’t necessarily want to think about when we are dating older men. But it’s there, and it’s something that we have to keep in mind. As we get older, health problems become more frequent. Things that wouldn’t matter as a younger man suddenly become serious. And there are a host of other new problems cropping up. As a younger partner to an older man, you do have some responsibility to help keep an eye on him and his health.

Too Darn Big Or Too Darn Small
Sometimes gay men end up sounding like Goldilocks'. That cock is too small, they’ll complain, but when they get up close to a giant one, they panic in fear, claiming that “that one is too big!” Surprised as you might be, there are plenty of complaints out there about men with too big dicks, as well as a lot of misconceptions and problems with having too small of one. Here are the biggest problems with dick size, and some ideas on how to deal with them!

Why Aren't I Enjoying Sex?
There are many reasons why you have sex. To get closer to your partner. To share an experience together. But, primarily, you have sex to pleasure yourself and your partner. This doesn’t always work. Sometimes you aren’t stimulated. It can feel like work, or worse, painful.  The question, then, is why? Why isn’t sex fun, pleasurable, intense, erotic, and special for you? Here are nine likely causes for problems in the bedroom.

Seven Unusual Ways to Keep Healthy
Health is important to us seniors. We want to keep our golden years as pleasurable as possible, so it dominates our attention. And we’ve all heard those life-changing methods of adding a few years to your life. Can it all really be that hard? Do we have to totally change the way we live, and cut out the things we enjoy, to keep those extra years enjoyable?

Safe Ways to Take His Load
If you’re like me, then you like cum. How could you not? It’s not a body fluid. It means so much. It shows that you turn him on. It signifies that he worked up so much that he just couldn’t hold it in. It’s part of him. The smell, the taste, the feel of cum is a turn on for thousands of guys. Call us cumwhores, or just plain old horny, it’s all the same thing. For some it’s a fetish, for others, just a part of healthy sex.

The Elusive Orgasm
For some of us, it was so easy to work up a load as a younger man. But as we get older, achieving orgasm can get harder, while your cock gets softer. It can be more difficult to handle than you first imagine. You might start to worry that that’s the end of your sex life, or feel that you are growing inadequate. The frustration and stress of sexual performance can actually become an orgasm blocker in itself. Just realize that millions of men are going through the same thing as you. There is help, and there’s ways of working with what you have. We’re not going to call it quits. Cumming is worth working for, so that’s what we’re going to do! And here are six tips on cumming that can help you push yourself over the edge!

Addicted to Porn?
Admit it. You like porn. Whether you’re into older men, or prefer your men younger, there’s something to watching the man of your dreams jerking off, sucking, fucking, or whatever it is that turns you on. But sometimes, living through your fantasies vicariously, being the eternal voyeur, can get in the way of your life. Can you be too into porn? Let’s look at the ups and downs of porn addiction, why it can be good for you, and the pitfalls you’ve got to learn to avoid!

Can't Take It?
Anal sex is what the general public thinks of most often when they think of gay sex. But, some gay couples can’t do it. Whether you’re an older man, or a younger man, there can be some hurdles in the way of getting anal sex to happen. It’s especially difficult when one member of the relationship really wants to have anal sex, and the other doesn’t or can’t. Here’s a quick look at some of the problems that can come up with anal sex, and some ideas on how to deal with them.

Priming the Charges
Getting your partner off is the rewarding finale to a hot night of passionate sex. Knowing that it’s you that caused him to shoot his load, that your actions give him such intense pleasure, can connect you two in a moment of pure ecstasy. But what do you do when building up to that point takes a good part of an hour? At our age, envisioning stroking or sucking for extended periods of time might not exactly be our sexual fantasy.

STDs and the Older Man
Here at Older, we like to celebrate the sex lives of seniors. We like to remind everyone that plenty of seniors get laid, and get laid well. But, the fact of life that comes with older men being sexually active is that we’re exposing ourselves to the wide world of STDs. As much as we’d like to think we know all about what you can and can’t get these days, it’s still good to have a refresher on what’s out there and how it can affect you. Your body, as it gets older, also reacts to different STDs differently than it would when you were younger.

First Timer Old Timers
If you are coming into the gay community later in life, one thing that you might be worried about is getting used to anal sex. It’s the crux of homosexuality, the idea of having a cock up your ass – not so much being a top, as being a bottom. Being a gay top, that’s something that straight men can understand. But being a gay bottom? You worry about cleanliness, pain, and simply whether or not your ass can accommodate something potentially that large. Here’s a step-by-step guide to taking it, regardless of your age.

Low Impact, High Satisfaction
Do you have a wild young partner who wants you to climb up on his sling and buckle your legs into stirrups? Afraid of explaining to him the effects of time and arthritis? Or do you have a senior partner with whom you want to get wild and crazy, but are afraid he might not be able to handle it?

Safe Sex in the 21st Century
We’ve all lived through the AIDS epidemic. We know that things aren’t the same way as they were in the sixties or seventies. But what now? What do we know? What is safe and unsafe these days?

Erectile Dysfunction and the Mature Gay Man
Erectile dysfunction can be extremely problematic, no matter whether it happens in a long-term relationship, or is an extra worry when you are starting to see someone new. Even if hookups are all you are after, not being able to achieve a lasting erection has obvious consequences. What should you do?

Antidepressants vs. your sex life
Depression is one of the most common and yet most treatable of all mental illnesses. Annually, 680 million people in the world suffer from this disease. No one is immune from depression—it occurs in people of all social classes, all countries and all cultural settings. Eighty to 90 percent of those who suffer from depression can be effectively treated. Unfortunately, many current chemicals prescribed for treating depression can have undesirable sexual side effects which can contribute to further depression.

Stiff Competition
Every man's worst nightmare is to realize, in the heat of a passionate moment, that he can't get an erection. Luckily for many men, we live in the twenty-first century and all the research in medicine is starting to pay off. If you have erectile dysfunction nowadays, you can choose from a variety of new erection drugs other than Viagra. For men who have problems with their willy, here is an introduction to the new impotence drugs approved or waiting for approval from the FDA.

Prostate Cancer
For men under 40 years of age, it is likely that the prostate has not caused any problems. But for men who are 40 and over, the prostate may become a source of problems. For instance, 1 in 10 men will develop prostate cancer. Early stages of prostate cancer may not cause any symptoms; thus, yearly medical checkups are important.